Tell us what happened on your first date, in your own words. In about a minute you get an honest score out of 100, what most likely made her feel good, what probably cost you, how the evening looked from her side, and what to do next. Text only, nothing stored, free.
Write what happened, the way you would tell a friend who asked how it went. Where you met, what you talked about, the moments that felt good and the ones that went flat, whether there was touch and how she responded, and how it ended. Not a transcript: the moments. If a line matters, put it in quotes.
You get a score out of 100, six scores underneath it, the moments that most likely made her feel good, the ones that cost you and what to do instead, how the evening probably looked from her side, and the next move.
It takes about a minute. Read it, and the next first date starts from what you learned on this one.
Most of a first impression is decided before anything interesting has been said: how you arrive, whether you look glad to be there, whether the first exchange is a question or a moment. But what she remembers a week later is not your opener, the restaurant or the shirt. It is how she felt sitting across from you.
That is what the review reads for. Not whether you said the right lines, but which moments probably made her feel seen, amused, safe or wanted, and which ones quietly turned the evening into an interview.
After a first date you usually get one bit of information: a second date, or silence. You never find out why. The review is a way to estimate it: where the energy dropped, which opening she gave you that you did not take, the moment that probably decided it.
It also tells you what worked, because that is what to keep. A date that did not lead anywhere often had two or three things in it that were exactly right, and those are worth knowing too.
Six things, each scored on its own:
Connection: whether you got to know who she is, one layer below her job, and whether there was a moment where she felt genuinely seen.
Conversation: ping-pong or interview. Whether she did most of the talking because you gave her reasons to, and whether you followed up on what she offered.
Playfulness: teasing followed by warmth, guesses instead of questions, shared jokes, and reading her tone before joking about anything personal.
Closeness and reading her: light touch, eye contact, and above all whether you noticed what came back. Not touching someone whose body language says no is the right call, and it scores that way.
Leading the evening: whether you planned it, kept it moving when it was good, and ended it early and kindly when it clearly was not.
The ending and after: how you closed, whether you left something small for tomorrow, and how you handled the answer, whatever it was.
A review that tells everyone they did well is no use to the man who did not, and he is the one who needs it most. Ninety and above is rare. A pleasant evening with no tension in it lands in the sixties. A night that ended early and cleanly, because it was never going to work, can score better than a long one you ran as an interview.
The score is about how you handled the date you were given, not about whether she liked you. Her interest is information. Your choices are the grade.
We do not accept recordings, and please do not record your date. Recording someone without their consent is illegal in many countries and unkind everywhere. What you remember, in your own words, is what the review needs anyway.
Leave out anything that identifies her: no full name, workplace, address, phone number or social handle. A first name or "she" is plenty. What you write is sent to our AI provider to write the review and is never stored. Signed in, the review is saved to your account under the name you give the date, until you delete it; without an account it is kept in your browser for 24 hours.
Only what you wrote. It was not there, it does not know her, and it reads her signals as likelihoods, not facts. If you leave out the part where it went wrong, it cannot find it. The more honestly you tell it, the more useful it is.
If the review keeps pointing at the same thing, the guide to how to impress a girl on a first date (by not trying to) covers what to do instead: what to talk about, how to keep the evening moving, closeness, and how to end it.
For the conversation itself, what to talk about on a first date is about stories over CVs. For the signals, read how to tell if she is interested. And for the part the review scores last, the second date is won during the first one.
Before the date, the other free review reads your profile: the dating profile review gives every photo a keep, fix or replace and sharpens your bio.
Yes, a couple of reviews a day, with or without an account. Once the day's free reviews are used, a signed-in user can have another one for credits. Wingman members get ten reviews included.
No, and please do not record your date. Recording someone without their consent is illegal in many places. Write what happened in your own words instead; quote a line when it matters.
Where you met, what you talked about, the moments that felt good and the ones that went flat, whether there was touch and how she responded, how it ended, and anything that happened after, like the follow-up texts. A few paragraphs is enough.
No. The story is sent to our AI provider to write the review and is not kept. If you are signed in, the review is saved to your account under the name you give the date, so you can compare dates over time, and you can delete it whenever you like. Without an account the review is deleted after 24 hours.
Because it is strict on purpose. A pleasant evening with no tension in it is a sixty, not an eighty. Read the moments it says cost you, and what to do instead: that is the useful part.
It can give you the most likely reading of the signals in your story, and it says how confident that reading is. It cannot know what she thinks, and it will never tell you to keep pursuing someone who has said no or stopped answering.